As women juggling with so many responsibilities in this modern era, it is imperative for all of us to know how to create a life that is fulfilling and makes us happy. We are being bombarded by techniques that intend to teach us to become more successful and excel in what we do. Those techniques seems to work for a while but often success is short lived and things go back to where they were before. It seems they are teaching us to treat the branches while the actual tree is sick. These techniques can not work unless we prepare a foundation that is solid enough to register the change and let us apply it. So we need to go deeper. What is really missing is the validity of the thoughts we think and how to create an environment in our mind to accept the change and to attract what we desire. As a woman who has searched the true meaning of happiness her entire life and pursued her quests even in her masters thesis exploring the psychology of thoughts and speech, I came to believe that change is a mental exercise before anything else and it should be created at a much deeper level for the change we want to see in our life to manifest. Dr. Wayne Dyer (1940-2016), an internationally renowned author and speaker in the fields of self-development and spiritual growth, in his Blog in 2015 has talked about manifesting desires and explains: “Within all of us is a divine capacity to manifest and attract all that we need and desire. Knowing that our thoughts create our reality, we begin with the following thought: I have a divine ability to manifest and attract what I need or desire! http://bit.ly/1QKJriO http://bit.ly/1Q2Nfzu Bob Proctor, a great thinker and international speaker, author, consultant, coach, and mentor has described the change at four different stages: “if you want to get better results in any area of your life, it is very important that you understand paradigms." So to make sure you’re really clear, let’s look at this concept from another perspective—the four stages of competence. You’ve probably heard of these stages before. They suggest that "we are initially unaware of how little we know" (Stage 1). Then, as "we recognize our incompetence, we begin to consciously learn a skill" (Stage 2) and "consciously use it" (Stage 3). Eventually, we can "use the skill without having to consciously think it through" (Stage 4). http://bit.ly/1LuGNvV What Bob means is that when the thought or the skill we want to learn has been placed in our subconscious mind by repetition and practice and it becomes automatic, the change has happened and it is learnt. Now, the change is registered and it starts to affect your behavior and beliefs at the subconscious level and that is when it manifests in your life. So before turning into another technic to help you make more money or become more successful in your work or life, think about doing the following:
As change is a mental process, first find the thoughts you want to change about yourself or the situation. Then, analyze and filter them to keep the positive, constructive, happy, pure and praiseworthy and replace the unworthy thoughts. Repeat this process until the root causes and deep layers of those beliefs are peeled away to reveal the truth beneath it and your subconscious mind starts to believe the new positive thought. It is only then that the change becomes part of who you are and you become the change!
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